The Driven Dad Code by Gabe Shirey

The book

The Driven Dad Code

The Untaught Playbook for High-Performing Fathers to Build Real Connection at Home

Gabe built Archangel Global and Signature Preparatory, and he was losing the one thing he had never trained for. This book is the system he built to fix it, tested on himself first and on his clients since. It doesn't ask you to slow down. It gives your drive a scoreboard at home.

PublicationComing 2027
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Inside the book

The Fatherhood Fallacy

The belief that because you're successful, disciplined and driven, you'll be effective as a father without ever training for it.

The Drift

Most fathers don't fail loudly. They stay, they provide, and slowly they drift into presence without connection.

Provision as the Floor

Providing is the floor. Being emotionally available is the house.

The Scoreboard Problem

When a driven man finally measures his fatherhood, he picks the wrong numbers first: attendance, hours and games watched.

The Wealth Paradox

If providing alone could build strong kids, the strongest kids in America would all have trust funds.

The Dad Dashboard and the Repair

A five-step operating system for the fifteen minutes after you walk in the door, and what to do after you get it wrong.

Who it's for

You're doing well by every measure you were given.

The book is for the father who runs a company, a practice or a team, and suspects there is a level at home he hasn't reached yet. Nothing in it asks you to want less. It asks you to point the same discipline at a scoreboard nobody ever handed you.

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