Work with Gabe
Choose Your Path Forward
Each program is designed to deliver substantive, lasting change in how high-performing dads engage with their families. The format depends on the nature of your objectives, your schedule, and the degree of individualization required.
The Legacy Blueprint
A structured, transformative curriculum designed specifically for high-performing executives. The Legacy Blueprint systematically addresses the core frameworks required to architect lasting generational impact.
This program provides the exact strategic tools, clarity, and accountability necessary to bridge the gap between your professional success and your family relationships.
Apply for The Blueprint
The Driven Dad Code
The complete written foundation of this methodology, from the Fatherhood Fallacy to the Dad Dashboard and the Repair.
The book is coming in 2027. Waitlist members get the pre-order link first.
Every tool in the Parent Prompt Playbook and Repair and Restore comes from it.
Join the Waitlist
The Driven Dad
Weekly, for the father closing the gap between success at work and connection with his kids at home.
Each issue gives you one tool you can use that night, like the handoff at the door or the last words of the day, from the same system as the book.
New issues arrive every Wednesday, and past issues are on Substack.
SubscribeFrom the families in this work
What Gabe builds.
“Gabe is the most ambitious and passionate professional I have ever had the privilege of working with. His energy is infectious, and his ability to accomplish whatever he sets his mind to, always in service of others, is truly remarkable. What he has done for education in Nevada is unprecedented and life-changing for thousands of families, and the communities he touches are better for it. Gabe doesn't just show up, he makes a difference, every single time.”
“I have known Gabe Shirey for more than a decade, and he is among the most remarkably accomplished individuals I have ever had the privilege of knowing. Through sheer vision, determination, and an unwavering commitment to others, Gabe has transformed the educational landscape in Nevada, bringing his school from zero percent proficiency to being recognized as one of the top academic charter schools in the state. What he has achieved in underserved communities is what many considered impossible, and he did it by putting the needs of children above everything else. Gabe does not just talk about change, he delivers it in schools, in homes, and in communities across this country. Whatever platform he steps onto, lives are better for it.”
Frequently Asked Questions
My schedule is already at capacity. Will this program compound the pressure?+
This methodology was built explicitly around the constraints of dads who do not have discretionary time to spare. You will not be asked to carve out hours that do not exist. You will be shown how to restructure the time and transitional moments already present in your week and how to inhabit them differently. Most participants report that the work reduces pressure rather than adds to it, because clarity and intentionality are more efficient than the guilt of feeling perpetually behind as a father.
How does this differ from therapy?+
This is performance coaching, not clinical intervention. Therapeutic modalities are designed to process psychological history. This methodology is structured, forward-facing, and outcome-oriented: it is concerned with what you are building, not with what you have carried. The approach is analytical and systematic, consistent with how high-performing men already think. Participation in this program does not constitute, nor substitute, for psychological or psychiatric treatment.
What follows the submission of an application?+
A member of the team will be in contact within 24 hours to schedule a brief introductory conversation. The purpose of that call is to confirm mutual alignment, address any remaining questions, and initiate onboarding without delay.